9th February 2010
Then the son away
"I made good time, sometimes I get around cancer," says Sylvia K. (name changed) her life, she was city planner, a TV writer, she had seen the world and always a feared: the loss of their freedom. Because she had been socialized as "a southern European stray dog - to try to clean off without the dog" in a children's home in northern Hesse. The consequences of that home education, which she would have to tell. The 53-year-old living abroad who return to Germany they will not. Her son is 13
They have a son and are a single parent?
Sylvia K. Yes. I am a single parent, would not have been more dramatic if my son was not diagnosed very early from severe eczema, which was followed later asthma, although we lived as it should be in good health: rural. We had two horses and a large dog, two acres of pasture, a forest, a river, neighbor children. It was absolutely idyllic. But to sleep was not to think in the night with the illness of my son. I soon could no longer work part time and was the father of my now 13-year-old son do not support us. The walk to the welfare office, I hesitated for known reasons. We punched through to the farm should be sold.
Somehow missing now the Youth Office, which always shows up at some point, if a problem is sensed.
Sylvia K. you seem to know is there. After a Klimakur, when my son was perfectly healthy, we were staying temporarily in the house of a fellow student. The pilot was a lot. One day a horrible woman from social services at the door and told me in 20 minutes for parenting skills. The father of my son had gotten married and his wife was looking for a foster child. What could be more than my son to be envisaged?
When was that?
Sylvia K.: On a beautiful August day of 2002. What happened next, reflecting the whole Harassment from my time as a foster child resists. And I realized that people disdain and reduction by some social workers had not changed. However, I will not deny that there are others.
What happened to your son? He was taken away from you?
Sylvia K. My son was trimmed down to the best interests of the sought. They described him as disturbed. And he threatened to become. Because he did not understand why he could no longer live with me.
almost two years I fought a losing battle. I had long since lost all rights to my son, the rights were subject to a visitation by the hour supervision become. The opinion in the context of an absurd custody dispute was purely a courtesy advice that arbitrariness was even laymen. It came even to an investigation of the consultant. But it petered out.
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